By Martin Chase
One of the questions people always ask me about being an NFL player is, “what is it like making so much money at such a young age?”
I have to say that it is very difficult to go from being young and having no money to being young and a millionaire because you do not know how to be financially responsible. It’s just like winning the lottery, and as you know from reading about lottery winners, most lottery winners go broke within 10 years after winning the lottery. Well, it is not that much different with professional sports players. The reason for this is most professional athletes, and lottery winners, were never taught money management skills. Going from being broke one day to being a millionaire the next day is a huge change in your life, mostly because once you have money, everybody wants you to give it to them, and most of the time you do.
I came from a single family home without a father, which is something many professional NFL players have in common. I am also African American and my family did not have a lot of money, which is also very common among NFL players. Because of this, I was never taught how to manage money responsibly and plan for my future. I went from being broke one day to being drafted into the NFL and becoming a millionaire.
A huge problem with being young and having a lot of money is the pressure by just about everybody including fellow players to spend a lot of money very quickly. When you are rich, everybody wants your money, especially your family and friends. My mother, aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, etc. all wanted to borrow money from me. And of course I gave it to them. Then, you have girlfriends and wives who want you to buy them lots of expensive presents like cars, jewelry and clothes because you are rich and they want to show off to their friends. You also have charities, investors, and businesspeople all asking for your money—and you end up giving it to them.
But possibly the worst of all is the other players because when it comes to money it is the blind leading the blind. We all spend our money as if it will never run out because we are uneducated in financial responsibility. For example, for you to be cool and respected by the other players, you have to keep up with them. So, if one player buys a new SUV, you want to buy one too. I mean, you can’t be an NFL player and drive a normal car like a Honda Civic. You have to drive an expensive Hummer, Cadillac Escapade, BMW, Mercedes, Porsche, etc.
You also have to have a huge expensive house. All the other players do and if you just live in an average house, they look down at you. So, we spend a fortune buying huge houses for ourselves and for our parents that we do not need. And of course there is the jewelry. We spend so much money on jewelry it is insane. It is nothing for a player to spend $100,000 a year or more buying jewelry, and that is just for us. That does not include all the jewelry we buy for our family, wives, and girlfriends. It is all extremely irresponsible. But, when you have so many people putting pressure on you every day to buy things and keep up with the other NFL players, it becomes much easier to say yes than to say no, even as you are watching all of your money disappear.
Another problem is as a wealthy NFL player, you are expected to flip the bill for everything. Whenever you go out to restaurant, you are the person who pays for everybody. And, when you go out with other players or your buddies, it is always to a fancy club where we go to the VIP section and spend thousands of dollars on fancy champagne and drinks—for everybody. I have known players who have spent over $25,000 in one night at a club. And then they go and do it over and over so they can be the “big man.”
Another problem NFL players have is women who are after us for our money and our status. And many of these women are gold diggers. If we were not rich athletes these beautiful women would probably not look twice at us. But now that we are rich and well known, women chase us constantly. This almost always leads to us marrying a woman we shouldn’t marry and then getting divorced after a couple of years and losing a large percentage of our money in the divorce. I made this mistake myself and it cost me dearly and still costs me.
In close, being a wealthy athlete is much more difficult than people think because there is so much pressure on us to spend our money as quickly as possible. Money magnifies problems, it does not eliminate them as most people think it does.
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Martin Chase, #92


2 Comments:
You write very well.
I was disappointed in your article. It is very sad to think that you thought your ex-wife was a gold-digger. I went to school with yall-OU. I won't say that I knew either of you well, but I know people who did know both of you very well. Ya'll were this great couple that everyone wanted to be like. A pair that no one ever expected. A friend of mine told me your ex use to scribble hearts and your name on paper and say that she loved you. And that you told the world you loved her at a bowl game? That’s crazy.
I don't remember you having money at OU-she appeared to be the one with/come from money. So how is she a gold-digger? You said yourself she was beautiful and wouldn't have given you a look twice without money and status. But, didn't you date her before you had any of that? Long before you had any of that if I'm not mistaken. And if you thought that, why marry her-she fine but not that fine? Was she pregnant and you felt obligated to marry her? Cuz my homeboys play in the league, and those gold diggers get pregnant from the jump to guarantee they money! Ole girl was smart in school-why didn't she think of that? Besides, I thought ya'll were engaged at least a year and dated a long time? Was she your only option to marry or were you her only option? I'm confused?
OU Rumors were always flying after ya’ll married/divorced, they said she drove the car her parents bought her in college until it was sold to help pay for a jaguar you got in the divorce? They said you stopped paying the bills-to force her to give in and the house was going into foreclosure-that one is a fact, I looked it up. They said all she got in the divorce was the house, $25k she took trying to be funny out of an account cuz you wouldn't give her any money, and a truck that wasn't even a real cadillac-but some piece of crap the hot boyz drove? They said you came out smelling like roses kept ALL YOUR MONEY FROM THE FOOTBALL CONTRACTS B-more, NOLA, JAGS, GIATNS minus lawyers fees. They said she begged you to try and make the marriage work after she found out were having affair but you didn't want to. They said you had been seeing all kinds of chicks-buying them stuff/taking them places after you got married. I thought you was all holly-roller, my badd. They said that same jaguar you got her for a gift you were driving your girlfriend that you moved in with around town in it, while your wife was in texas? They also said she had to have some heart surgery and you didn't show up- her mom had to be the person to say what to do if something happened. The top 2 best ones:was that they say some chick-friend of hers fronted you cuz she saw yoi at a club with your girlfriend and you got pissed cuz she asked where was yo wife! 2. They say that you took yo boo to vegas shopping trip and yo wife was having to beg her folks for money to support herself because you hadn’t filed for divorce so you wouldn’t have to be forced to give her any money. Dn’t sound to me at all like she was a gold-digger? Sounds to me like you turned into the person you be blogging about and that she was dumb for not hiding money or having kids? All jokes aside, she ain’t as smart as I thought she was, which makes me believe she really loved you not your money!
Hey, I get it! Money changes things and situations. The Martin I remember seeing around campus was this quiet dude that kept to himself then met this 'over the top' chick and they fell in love. She thought she was all that and you seamed to keep her grounded. I do remember overhearing her tell people how much she loved and cared about you and knowing most linemans I know that you were in-love with her. Did you two get divorced because she was a gold digger or was it because you got caught up?
Do I think that she wanted more bling? DEFINITELY! Do I think you got caught up? Hell yeah! Which one of ya'll I think it went to there head? YOU! From what I saw prior to you going Pro, she looked like she had already lived a baller life with the nice cars, clothes, jewelry. How many other freshman black girlz came to campus in a new Volvo? So perhaps your blog does have some truth, maybe you married someone you shouldn't have. But This is an old article so maybe you think differently now.
Good Luck Dude!
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